Advice: The couple have started talking about engagement, and the boyfriend's “free” family ring is an early point of disagreement.
My now-husband took his mother’s suggestion over my written preference on what ring to pick from the list I provided him . And guess what? That ring got returned and I’m happily wearing the one I wanted. My husband and I were aligned that the engagement ring was an important purchase that we should both feel good about, and ultimately, was there for me to enjoy. We also openly discussed budget.
You also need to get aligned on his mother’s appropriate role in this decision — that it is not hers to make. If she is prone to pushing her opinions onto her son, it’s good to start establishing boundaries now while still being sensitive to her feelings. The ring may have sentimental value to her or represent your
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