Dear Amy: I’m now wondering if I should tell him the reasons I broke off the relationship.
It was obviously not long term. I was the one who broke it off. I have not contacted him since. Recently, I logged onto Facebook for the first time in a long time, and I noticed that he has been messaging me over the course of the last two years – and as recently as last week .It’s clear that he wants to get back together, but I have no interest in reconnecting with him.Telling him would be purely selfish and therapeutic .
It’s clear he’s not had much luck maintaining a committed relationship , so maybe he’ll be willing to listen?At the top of the list is that he was immature, racist, and unscrupulous , along with a long laundry list of other terrible behavior.I only knew him for a month, so perhaps I’m being too judgmental?Dear Hesitant: Helpful feedback might be: “You’re late too often. Your hygiene needs improvement. Your roommates are rude.
I’ve explained multiple times how I did this, offering all the free resources I have used, but they keep bringing it up as though we’ve never had the conversation.Last week, when I was asked again, I just offered no advice and just listened to a recitation of the emotional issues surrounding their debt.– Not in Debt David
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