My first suggestion is that if you are unsure of your guy’s commitment to you, then you should not be engaged to him, writes Amy Dickinson.
Dear Amy: I am engaged to marry a wonderful man who treats me like a queen. I do not have any evidence of infidelity, but he is a naturally private person, and I harbor fear that he may have another woman on the side – not so much sexually as emotionally.
However … your own instincts are your best tool for determining the course of your own life. Never ignore them. You believe there is something he isn’t telling you? There is a high likelihood that you are right. I’d love to stop working and begin to enjoy life but when I mention my “wife,” prospective partners don’t think it appropriate to seek anything more than a friendship.Dear DVM: I’m sorry you and your wife are going through this.It interests me that you describe your wife as knowing you now only as a good friend, which illustrates the point that friendships can outlast partnerships.
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