This is in response to the letter from “News Blues” (June 14).
This is in response to the letter from “News Blues” . I thought your advice was wonderful. Once upon a time, I was News Blues’ perpetually negative father, and I didn’t realize I was doing it. It took me many years to change my position. Now I take my time before I speak, and I think about what I am going to say. I look for the positive in the situation and remark upon that.
To “News Blues”: Be patient with your dad. He has been in this thought process for many, many years. He will have a hard time overcoming this. When you speak with your dad, point out the positives you see in your situation. Help him to see that the positives outweigh the negatives. Most likely he is worried about you and is concerned.Thank you for sharing your story! It’s helpful to get your perspective and to know that we all have the capacity to change longstanding habits.
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