58-year-old Wong Ching Yee finds comfort and solace in art amidst her multiple myeloma battles, loss of husband to colon cancer, and subsequent relapse
Wong Ching Yee survived multiple myeloma, lost her husband to colon cancer and faced a relapse soon after. She turned to art to make sense of a cancer known to return, and to navigate mortality and loss.
Diagnosed with multiple myeloma nine years ago, Wong Ching Yee survived treatment, remission and relapse. Now, in her second remission, she finds healing and gratitude in art. Add CNA as a trusted source to help Google better understand and surface our content in search results. With an ink pen, 58-year-old Wong Ching Yee sketched her childhood home in Tiong Bahru, tracing the rounded corners, curved balconies, and Art Deco-inspired elements.
As a child, Wong had climbed up three storeys of the low-rise block to the warmth of her parents’ study lamp flooding the room and the laughter of her brother and cousins filling the air. More than five decades on, her parents and aunt, now in their 80s, still live there. But much else has changed. In 2017, Wong was diagnosed with multiple myeloma, a blood cancer that begins in the plasma cells in the bone marrow.
She went through treatment, remission, relapse, a second round of treatment, and is now in her second remission. During her long cancer battle, her husband was also diagnosed with colon cancer. He succumbed within 10 months. It was in this season of loss that Wong, an educator, picked up art, first experimenting with card-making in 2019, then moving on to sketching, calligraphy and painting.
She was then in her early 50s. A watercolour painting of laksa, one of Wong’s favourite local dishes. Wong’s journal entry of a recent trip to Hanoi: “Art and journaling help me translate a lot of anguish onto paper,” she says. “Mortality is very real.
It’s staring at me in the face,” reflected Wong, who has three adult sons aged 30, 28 and 21. It began in 2015 with persistent joint pain in her shoulder, back and knees, as well as chronic fatigue. Wong was diagnosed with monoclonal gammopathy of undetermined significance , a usually benign condition where the body makes an abnormal protein in the blood.
However, MGUS patients have about a 1 per cent yearly risk of developing multiple myeloma. Two years later, however, she started to have daily nose bleeds, which led to a bone marrow biopsy to check if her MGUS had progressed into multiple myeloma or other plasma-cell disorders. The call from the hospital came just as she boarded a cruise to Hong Kong. She went to the hospital after the trip.
“I was expecting bad news but I did not expect cancer,” she told CNA Women. “In fact, when they told me I had multiple myeloma, I asked them what it was. Could they spell it out for me?
”In June 2018, she began chemotherapy at the National University Cancer Institute, Singapore, and six months later, underwent an autologous stem cell transplant, where doctors collect a patient’s own blood-forming stem cells, give high-dose chemotherapy to kill the cancer cells, and then return the stored stem cells to help the bone marrow recover.and lost about 10kg. I didn’t have energy to walk from the bed to the toilet.
I had diarrhoea, nausea and vomiting, and had to get disposable underwear because I would soil myself,” she said. Wong took six months’ leave from her job as an educator and after the transplant, spent about three months in near-isolation as her immune system slowly rebuilt. During this period, an old friend sent her handmade cards with uplifting messages. After her isolation period, Wong expressed interest in learning how to make them.
So her friend brought calligraphy stamps, colour pencils and markers to Wong’s house and the duo began making cards together. Wong enjoyed the session so much that she shopped for her own art supplies, and over the next few months, made around 50 such cards for family and friends.
“Making cards helped me to reflect on gratitude, and was very therapeutic. It was a medicine of sorts,” she shared. After the treatment, Wong’s cancer went into remission, and she threw herself back into work in June 2019.
However, in December 2019, her husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 Wong and her husband in February 2019 – he was diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer 10 months later. “It came as a thunderbolt. I was shattered,” Wong recalled.
“I was barely out of the woods from my stem cell transplant, barely back to my job, barely had hair growing, and then this. The disease progressed rapidly. In September 2020, the couple, who had been married for 26 years, went for a one-night staycation to celebrate his birthday. A couple of weeks later, he was hospitalised for an infection and died in October 2020.
He was 53.
“ I did not have the luxury to dwell on the fact that I’m a cancer patient. I became a single parent and was back in the pilot seat,” she said.
“Looking back, I guess I did not fully understand that health is wealth; health is most important. I still wanted to hang on to my career – something that I’ve built and loved,” she said. It was only at the end of 2024, when her brain fog and fatigue intensified, that Wong realised work was no longer sustainable. In January 2025, she took long-term no-pay leave.
Multiple myeloma can be a long journey marked by cycles of remission and relapses, said Professor Chng Wee Joo, senior consultant at the Department of About 80 per cent of patients relapse after treatment, even if the disease goes into remission. However, with newer treatments, a smaller proportion of newly diagnosed patients are likely to relapse in the future. Prof Chng said current patients can still benefit from the newer treatments, depending on when they start it.
The first remission typically lasts four to five years. For newly diagnosed patients receiving newer treatment, however, remission may last as long as 10 years. The remission period tends to become shorter with each relapse. The high risk of relapse takes a toll on patients and caregivers.
The need for long-term treatment to maintain remission, and more intensive treatment after each relapse can strain finances and lead to cumulative side effects such as fatigue, immune suppression making them prone to infections, and an increased risk of developing another cancer. On a positive note, treatments are generally effective and well tolerated, and many patients maintain a good quality of life, living more than 10 years after diagnosis.
Wanting to deepen her art journey, Wong also began online classes, including a 10-month art course with Fei Yue Family Service Centre. She also did ad hoc art sessions with friends. Wong’s artwork of a Peranakan building done in colour pencils. She was charmed by its cultural heritage and beauty.
A Japanese craft Wong particularly enjoyed is kinusaiga, where pieces of fabric are pressed on a board to create a picture. With pieces of cloth a friend had collected, including batik, Japanese cotton and scraps from old dresses and skirts, Wong created a picture of a bird. Wong enjoying kinusaiga with her friends. This Japanese craft involves using scrap fabric to create art.
Wong also enjoyed kintsugi.
“I found it so healing. There can be beauty in brokenness, just like my own life,” she says. She also particularly enjoyed kintsugi, the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery with lacquer mixed with powdered gold, silver or platinum.
“To me, this picking up pieces – whether they be sad news or the brokenness in myself, and putting them together into a new story,” she reflected. “When something broken is pieced back, you may see the fractures, but it’s okay. It can still be repurposed once there is an acceptance that there’s beauty in imperfection. ” “Mortality is very real.
It’s staring at me in the face. However, I give thanks that I'm still able to pick myself up and take on life,” says Wong. Wong has been in her second remission since April 2025 and is on monthly maintenance chemotherapy. But the likelihood of relapse hangs over her.
“My cancer journey feels like Hyrox and a marathon,” mused Wong, whose sons participate in these fitness events. “I have had very tough days, when my nose bleeds make me look like a pontianak . But on good days, I choose to count my blessings,” she added.. I feel rich,” she reflected.
“Richness now comes in the form of relationships, and time with my family and ageing parents. “I also now have time to discover what I love – art. I have time to learn, create and be transported back to that disposition of awe, wonder and creativity just like a child again,” she said.is a section on CNA Lifestyle that seeks to inform, empower and inspire the modern woman.
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