His deception has upended her life, and the wedding is on hold.
My daughter says she could have accepted that he was a donor and has children, but she is very upset that he hid it from her all this time.
They are still engaged, but she has put the wedding plans on hold until they can get through this. They are now talking about counseling. She says her world has been turned upside down. My heart is hurting for her, and we are supportive of any decision she makes. Your opinion is very appreciated.Your daughter is a smart woman to want counseling before she makes any visits to the altar. The man she’s engaged to kept her in the dark for two years! I can’t help but wonder what else he may be hiding. It may take time for her to trust him again — if ever.
P.S. Her fiance and those friends should have consulted an attorney about his role as a sperm donor while it was still in the planning stages, if only to avoid any confusion in the future. It’s not too late to do that now, and I strongly recommend it.As a baby boomer, I have filled out a DNR order. I have been wondering, if something were to happen in public, how would first responders know? Strokes run in my family.
How does a person make certain that this information is available? It’s on file with my doctor, but he’s not always available.Emergency first responders are trained to look for certain information when they arrive. You should have “In Case of Emergency” numbers in your cellphone as well as in your wallet. There are also medical I.D. bracelets and necklaces available. Because of your family history, you may want to talk with your doctor about getting one.
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